Most sugarbabies do not bring enough to the table to justify the allowances suggested here.
Remember the average rate on humaniplex for a session with an extremely attractive college age girl is 0 and on The Erotic Review you can get a session with a girl who looks like a super model for 0, than common sense dictates that 00 a month is not a reasonable market rate for a sugarbaby.
I had such similar arrangements as a single dad raising a couple of school age boys I had live in’s with the arrangements I would take care of them and they would help me out with the boys running errands and helping around the house etc.-From a mans side you have to make sure you get to know the person first to assure your not bringing drama in your house hold, my 1st arrangement was my learning experience she was drama with friends coming in and out and drugs that ended fast, the 2nd one lasted 2 years worked well she met someone her age and we hugged goodbye and they moved out of state,the 3rd one lasted 5 years went well until she started drinking wine every night and being drunk in front of my boys the sex was awesome but was not worth the drama when she drank,the 3rd lasted 4 years and is still going we are close friends, the sex is boring but she is a sweetheart that’s not the problem she loves to take care of me yet my boys are now young teenagers and she’s not good with older kids so we are about to part in a very friendly way I got her a good job and home I wanted to make sure she would be ok, that’s why I’m not ready for a relationship,my plan is to get the boys out of school and moved out then find a good woman to settle down with until then arrangements seem to be working best for me.
Personally, I wouldn’t continue negotiating with him seeing as he clearly doesn’t value your time enough.
That is, of course, your call- but you should know what you are getting yourself into.
And would expect at least 4 monthly shopping allowance to keep up on things that would please him. I just want sex once a week for two hour’s and pay about 400$ plus gifts each week, is that a fair offer. Sometimes these messages are for additional dates, some dates no sex, just conversation to rant about my week. Btw, most dates are just me giving her oral and she dosent really need to perform much, shes 21 student im 55 retired, shes an 8 when made up well.. thanks sdady I was so suppressed about American SD. I also want to know how to ask for my allowance without making him think im going only for the money.
IE nails, hair ect most hourly girls have no commitment, see several guys a night bringing in usually around 00 per night and hold no discretion or loyalty. Japanese SD will pay to SB, 100 to 300 for just spend time ( no sex). Of course Mostly old SD want to a lot of sexual things and want to stay all day. not nice I just talked to my first sugar daddy and we only text for now, but im wondering when should I get my allowance money or how long I should wait to ask for it eventhough I dont see him. And finally, even though we dont see often I should still get my 00 montly cause he mention he would give me 400$ for 4 days and 3000 per month. Say, “Bring my fee” or “Bring me the fee you promised.” Actually you shouldn’t have to ask. I think the per meet allowance just makes everyone ‘work harder’in the arrangement.
I’m in my mid 30s and receive over k/mo allowance, plus shopping, expenses, etc. So, there’s MY anecdotal evidence to add to the pile. Unfortunately, even after a six month arrangement with one, I have yet to be with an SB from SA that isn’t a Splenda Baby.