Nobody will be confused about whether she’s gay or straight; no one will question if she’s pretending or going through a phase.However, there can be a fuzzy line between “I’m intimate with women because we share a partner and I’m comfortable with that” and “I’m intimate with women because I’m sexually and romantically interested in women.”I’ve shared beds with quite a few women, most of whom I wasn’t dating and many of whom were straight, because my partners were dating them and wanted to get to sleep with both of us.People have two reasons to assume I’m sexually insatiable or unable to commit.It’s annoying, but at least when they hear that I’m bi and assume I’m non-monogamous, or hear that I’m polyamorous and assume I’m bi, they’re not wrong.What I thought would free me and liberate me, actually put significantly more pressure on my shoulders. I put too much pressure on myself to totally embrace the manifesto for polyamory. We also HIGHLY recommend every member have a Face Photo in their account before accessing Chat!(Adding the Passions site into your account is now FREE for all members…specifically so everyone can access chat! The chatroom is one of the many completely free features available within Polyamorous Passions.
They expect me to be far more chilled, like a doobie-smoking Liza Minnelli Yoda. Stepping from monogamy into polyamory is something worth taking considerable thought over. In the growth spurt of emotions we were both suddenly enduring together – falling in love, heartbreak, more love, anger, misunderstandings, honest mistakes, selfish ones – we leaned on each other to hold each other up, slowly crushing each other. In a year, I was speaking Dartanion, Chloinian, Hannahian and he was speaking Elfin, Pixie and Markian. You will never feel more liberated and in charge of yourself! When I first met Dartanion, it was electric, and within the first year we were discovering and unfolding each other like a Rubik’s cube. 'Oh, he does that when he is thinking.' 'He burps when he’s tired.' We were developing a language, working out the ways to read and translate the words between us. Within the space of six months we were already meeting new people, dating and bringing friends into our relationship. We were on different emotional linguistic journeys. I still define myself as poly, but polyamory is about keeping an open mind. Though I may be in one single relationship currently, that may not always be the case, because the integral part of polyamory – the vital thing I learned when my first relationship failed – is that patience is key.The problem is that women’s bisexuality can unconsciously get absorbed into the larger pool of women’s heteroflexibility (I’m using that word for convenience – just because someone fits the above description doesn’t mean they identify as heteroflexible).I want to be careful here not to sound like I’m policing anyone’s identity.Bisexuality and polyamory play so nicely together as identities that many people assume bi erasure isn’t a problem for polyamorous bisexuals. When I read an article about There are a lot of primary couples or larger domestic units that center around connections between men and women.