Rubber is not used for harnesses to the same degree that leather is, although a good leather store and kink supplier like Mr.S Leather in San Francisco will have plentiful options of gear in both materials.
We still go to the gym together, and today I consider him one of my closest friends. That distinctly musky, delicious aroma, which can only be found in the playrooms of gay circuit parties and in gyms across the country, lingered in the stitching. “You’re welcome.” Used underwear is one of my fetishes.He knows what I like — sexually and otherwise — more than most people in my life, so his presents are always top-notch. You may be asking: What is a fetish, and how is it different from a kink?Inside the first package was a bottle of twelve-year Glenlivet, one of my favorite single malt whiskies. I clarified these two terms in my list of 30 kinky terms every gay man should know. Kinks are “unconventional” sexual interests, like bondage or paddling. Fetishes — also called paraphilias — are objects, materials, features, or articles of clothing, like used jockstraps, that people respond to sexually, and that enhance or facilitate sexual arousal.Guys I’ve met that are into this fetish get aroused from the sensation of electric buzzers running against their skin — and have had more than a few uncomfortable erections in barber chairs.Also called urolagnia, this is the fetish around urine itself, which for obvious reasons overlaps with the kink of watersports — a sexual activity in which people enjoy getting peed on, peeing on others, and/or drinking urine.There is a massive (albeit more underground) fetish surrounding guys with buzz cuts, or “skinheads.” This fetish typically overlaps with rubber and skateboarder/punk wear.